FINDING THE MISSING PIECE

Are looking for love? Are you trying to find THE ONE for you? Are you trying to find your missing piece? If yes, you should immediately , STOP LOOKING. Honestly , it is impossible for anyone to find their ' missing piece' because there is none that exists , except in your mind. There is no one in this world : who can complete you, because you are complete in your own sense. You are the perfect you.Your imperfections are important ,embrace them!! they are as necessary to make a perfect you as your qualities are. You don't need someone to fill your cracks , but embrace them.

Japanese concept of wabi-sabi talks about the beauty of imperfection.I have a chubby friend,she is constantly worried about her weight, belittled by the world . She feels that if she was a little slim and fit in those ideal image , she will find THE ONE . But I really want to tell her that ,she is the cutest person I know. She gives the best hugs in the world , and all she need to do is hug me 10 times a day ,and also see her power to make people fall in love with her cuteness, wit and kindness. Your imperfections are not really your 'imperfections' ,they are you ill perceived powers. So , STOP WORRYING !

But if we are perfect in our own sense why do we need someone at all? ,you might be wondering. Because I do. We while do not  need someone to complete our world , we surely want someone to be a part of it. Think about it as colors in a piece of art, it surely adds to it ,makes it better but never make it lose it's identity. Do not look for someone , let love find you , let it find you in yourself, in your family, in your best friend and in the special one who will one day join in your walk of life , and will help you grow while growing himself/herself, push you when you are tired while moving forward himself/herself and above all who understands that he/she can walk with you not for you.